work with me
Three ways in.
Pick the one that scares you the right amount.
1. The Brave six
What is included
Twelve sessions, front loaded and then tapered.
Weekly for the first month, every other week then every three weeks months 2-4, monthly for the remainder.
A ninety minute kickoff intensive.
One assigned dare between every session.
Voice message support between sessions, because the moment you need me is rarely on a Tuesday at two.
One adventure day, in person or virtual, at the midpoint.
Six months, one on one
This is the deep version. Six months because real change is not a sprint, and because I want to be there when you hit the wall in month three, not just when you are excited in week one. Everyone is brave in week one. Week one is easy.
The work we do here is not about adding something to your life. It is about finding the thing you decided a long time ago about who you are and what you are allowed to want, and then testing whether it is still true. Usually it is not.
Who this is for
You already know what the thing is. You thought of it before you finished reading that sentence.
You have been carrying it for a while, maybe years. You have talked around it with friends. You may have tried once and let it go quietly when it got hard, and nobody noticed because you are the person who handles things.
You do not need to be talked into this. You need someone who will not let you talk yourself out of it.
Investment
$4,200 paid in full OR five payments of $850 at $4,800
Founding Adventurer rate: $2,400 for the first five women, in exchange for a testimonial and permission to tell your story.
The founding rate is for the first five clients only. After that the rate is as listed above.
2. The Dare Club
Eight weeks, small group
Eight to twelve women who have all quietly decided that now is the time to stop waiting.
Here is what I know about doing hard things. You will not do it alone. Not because you are weak, but because nobody does. We are built to be braver in company, and most of us have never put ourselves in a room where bravery is the expectation rather than the exception. This is this room.
Every week you get one dare. Something you have been circling, avoiding, or telling yourself you will get to. You go do it. Then you come back and tell eleven women what happened. That last part is the engine. Not the dare, the telling.
Who this is for
You are competent at almost everything except asking for what you want. You have a list in your head. The conversation, the class, the trip, the boundary, the thing you used to do before life got full. It has been on that list for a while.
You do not need another framework or another book. You need a deadline and witnesses.
What a dare actually is
It is almost never a mountain. It is the email you have drafted four times. The no you have never said to your mother. The class where you will be the worst person in the room. The thing you want that you have never once said out loud to another human being.
You choose your own. I will push, and you can always say not that one. But you cannot say not any of them, because that is the whole program.
Investment
$797 for the eight week program
Founding Darer rate: $397
The founding rate is for the first round only, in exchange for a testimonial at the end. After this round the price goes to $797 and stays there.
What is included
Eight weekly calls of 90 to 120 minutes, live with me.
One assigned dare each week, chosen with you, escalating as you go.
A safe, private group thread where you check in, report back, get feedback and support. This is where most of the change happens, and it is the part that inspires people to actually do it.
Program materials and worksheets for each week as needed.
One honest note
Not everyone finishes. Some women do six of the eight dares and call it a win, and it is. Some do all eight and surprise themselves. What nobody does is sit quietly in the back, because there is no back in a group of ten.
If that sounds like too much, it probably is not the right time, and that is a real answer.
3. Adventure Days
One day, in person
Some things you cannot think your way into. You have to find out.
We spend a morning doing something genuinely hard together. It could be a climb, a cold plunge, a high ropes course, making prolonged eye contact, talking to strangers. You will not love all of it. That is not a flaw in the design, that is the design.
Then we sit down and look at what you told yourself while it was happening. Because whatever you said to yourself halfway up that wall, you say somewhere else too. In meetings. In your marriage. At two in the morning.
That is the real work. The morning is just how we get it out where we can see it.
Who comes
Women who have read enough and want proof instead.
Most have never done anything like this. You do not need to be fit, experienced, or brave yet. You need to be willing to be bad at something in front of people, which is its own kind of hard thing.
Come alone or bring a friend. Both work. Coming alone is braver.
How the day goes
Morning. The hard thing. We do it together. Nobody is left behind and nobody is pushed past what is safe, but everybody goes further than they planned to.
Lunch. The part people underestimate. Women talk differently after they have struggled next to each other. Something drops away. This is not a break in the day, it is part of the work.
Afternoon. Inside. What did you say to yourself when it got hard? Where else do you say that? How long have you been saying it, and who taught it to you?
Before you leave. One commitment. Said out loud, in front of the group, with a date attached. You will get a message from me when that date arrives.
Investment
$297 for one full day program
What is included
Full day facilitation, roughly 9am to 4pm.
The activity, with qualified instruction where it is needed.
Lunch.
A follow up message when your commitment date arrives, because a promise nobody checks is just a nice feeling.
One honest note
This is one day. It will not fix your life and I will not pretend otherwise.
What it will do is give you one true piece of evidence about yourself that you did not have yesterday. For some women that is enough to start everything else.
Not sure which one?
Book a Courage Call and we will figure it out together. You leave with a dare either way.